I'll take a shot at these.
Sitting still my bike always went to 220 and the fan would kick on. Its the side radiators that do it. If your in traffic and not moving the temp will get up there. i have seen it as high as 235 on a super hot day! but the temp is about 180 or so when I am riding and not sitting.
The cluch is not grabby on mine but crusing in first gear at super slow speeds you have to use excellent throttle control . If your running it half clutched it may just be a new bike and you need to find its engage points.
There really aren't any vibrations at less than 7K. When the VTEC pops the additional valves than the Hp is signifcantly increased and you have an jolt that really hits. and then your frame will settle the jerking down around 10.5K. but that is normal and its just wonderful first gen V-TEC smoothness issues.
