Originally Posted by Getsome
Don't mind me if I rant, bitch, complain, make stupid drunk postings or just act like somewhat of an asshole in general on the board for a week or two.
I am gearing up to drop the seperation/divorce bomb on the wife in the next week once I have my **** in order and my mood is going to be somewhat tense for a bit....
God I hope I can pull this off and not end up losing my bike in the process. Things are about to get ugly I think.
I need a beer.
Stay away from the alcohol. If you're worried about drunk posting here, then you'd probably drunk dial too.
Plus, whatever crap you post, email, write or otherwise divulge can be found and used against you. Think back to the Crown Vic story and you'll see how easy it is to track down everything you've ever done online. A good lawyer will do and find everything to make his client come out on top.
Word of caution, be careful about selling your stuff to your friends. It can be seen in legal circles as trying to hide assets (especially if you don't sell the stuff for fair market value, ie, selling your bike to a friend for $100). In some states, they can go after you for a percentage of what your stuff would have sold for.
Your best bet is to try to make it an amicable split if possible. If not, make sure you hire a shark. Someone who will drive 1000 miles just to take a lollipop from a baby.
If you don't think it will be an amicable split, make sure you discuss your situation with every good lawyer within a 100 mile radius to find the best one. Once a lawyer has spoken with you about the case (even the free consultation) they can't take your wife's case as it would be a conflict of interest.
Don't ask how I know this stuff, just know that I know it.