hey guys i know i ask alot of questions and i greatly appreciate the comments they have helped out allot, so here is another one. i am 6'5"and i feel i need stiffer suspension because i way 212lbs.however when riding curves and there bumpy at times i feel they need to be softer.is there a good combo for that, such as stiff in the front and soft in the rear or stiff rear and soft front or neither.what's your thoughts.